What's really important to note about this piece is just how well it speaks to so many people. Up until the last few years, I was that refrigerator guy. I kept thinking I didn't deserve something and that it was just best to keep on keeping on in misery. And then I woke up and realized that it's not worth it to keep being miserable because I let myself be. So, thanks for sharing this and reminding me something I have come to terms with in the last few year. I've decided not to be miserable anymore.